Saturday, February 21, 2009

Let them eat cake

I have never understood the expression, "You just want to have your cake and eat it too."
Of course I'm going to eat a cake if I have one. Duh.

What does it mean if you kiss someone, and you don't enjoy it? What if you're dating somebody, but they're not the person you think about before you go to sleep? Does that make you a bad person? How do you stop being a bad person? Let's say hypothetically, you find a way to stop being a bad person, but everyone you know thinks you're a worse person because of it. What then? How do you get out of that?

What if, really, you're just totally overanalyzing something, and the truth is you're absolutely terrified of committment? How do you know if that's the case?

If you're in a relationship, and the other person feels like they're on top of the world, but you come home and cry because you feel like you're losing your mind, what does that mean? And what are you supposed to do?

The point being, I don't think I have a cake.

5 comments:

robertandsharon said...

It means you don't have cake!!! lol ...But it is okay to date a person you aren't in love with. That is how you find the one you love...but the one you date needs to know he isn't THE ONE. Just a little advice from the Grammie Girl - unsolicited ha ha ha.

7carrs said...

Ah Lauren- he doesn't have access to this does he? I agree with Grammie- she is a smart woman.
love ya baby!
Mum

Lisa said...

What??? Are you in a relationship right now??? BABOOSHKA!!!! What in the world is going on??

robertandsharon said...

You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince!!

Lauren said...

Haha thanks Grammie, that really helps a lot. =]

And yes, Babooshka. I am. I will call you with the details later!!